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Let the integer obtained by reversing the digits of $m$ be $n$. $m$ and $n$ are both divisible by $45$, which means that they are both divisible by $5$. Thus, they both have units digits of $5$ or $0$. If one has a units digit of $0$, the other will have a leading digit of $0$, which cannot be. So both end in $5$; reversing them shows that both start with $5$ as well. Since $m$ is divisible by $45$ and by $7$, it is divisible by $7(45)=315$. There are four multiples of $315$ between $5000$ and $6000$: $5040$, $5355$, $5670$, and $5985$. $5985$ is the largest, and it is easy to see that it and its reversal, $5895$, meet all requirements. So $\boxed{5985}$ is the answer.